Sarah Hyland & Wells Adams’ Relationship Red Flag Is Annoyingly Cute
Of course, even Sarah Hyland and Wells Adams’ relationship red flag had to be freaking adorable. During her April 2 interview for the cover of the May issue of Cosmopolitan, Hyland revealed the only relationship red flag she and her husband-to-be have is that they still have never had any sort of “major blowout” fight after almost three years together. Yep, their only flaw seems to be that they get along too well.
The fact that they’ve been able to avoid any sort of blowout fight, could be due to the fact that Adams is apparently an excellent communicator. “This is the first time I’ve been in a relationship where I’m like, How am I the child in the relationship? I’ve always been the adult,” she says. “So it’s mostly me having to work on my sh*t.” According to Cosmopolitan part of Hyland’s "sh*t" is her temper, which is often triggered by a mood swing inducing prescription she takes. “I have to take a step back and be like, Is this actually upsetting you? Or is this, like, the medication?”
If you’re genuinely confused on how the fact that they’ve never had a blowup fight even constitutes as a red flag, allow me to explain. While not fighting doesn’t necessarily always have to be a red flag, it can be one when it means you and your partner are pushing things under the rug to avoid conflict.
"The emotions associated with the disagreements are still present," Joshua Klapow, Ph.D. clinical psychologist and co-host of The Kurre and Klapow Show, previously told Elite Daily. "The lack of resolution of problems or conflicts by avoiding, compromising constantly, and otherwise pushing them away or aside can lead to miscommunication in the relationship [and] misperceptions about the quality of the relationship."
But what Hyland describes sounds less like that and more like she and Adams are communicating too well for any disagreement to blow up into an all-out fight. "There are some couples who rarely argue because they communicate their wants, needs, preferences, and opinions in a manner that is accepted and processed by each other," Klapow explained. So, yes. These couples still have disagreements. "But those disagreements are genuinely resolved, or at least heard, and worked on," he said. "Couples who communicate honestly, authentically, and with an emphasis on sharing information and learning from each other vs. ‘winning’ or ‘losing’ will tend to argue less."
Sounds like these two have a handle on the whole relationship thing. Happy for them!
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