Dating ‘expert’ says men who don’t pay for first date ‘aren’t raised right’

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A self-proclaimed "dating expert" has shared one important tell-tale sign that women should notice when they go on a first date with men.

Nelly, from US, said men should always pay on the first date for a number of reasons.

"If you're asking a girl out and then going Dutch, it just shows you're cheap," she explains in a TikTok video.

"You're not raised right, you're not chivalrous or are dating out of their price range."

She says it does not look good if the man is trying to "flex on a nice dinner".

Nelly then suggests: "Instead of trying to flex on a nice dinner, you're better off taking her on a picnic in the park.

"And even the most progressive girls who insist they split it with you and say they don't mind… do mind.

"Not because they can't afford it, but because it shows us your character and if you're a girl and you've paid for first dates, I want to tell you that 'he ain't it sis'."

Her advice has stirred a debate after raking in 83,000 views.

Some agreed with Nelly and said it's "not about the money".

A viewer said: "I don't mind paying but if I pay on the first date, there won't be a second, we can be friends."

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Another wrote: "It has nothing to do with the money or buying someone's time.

"It's simply traditions like holding doors open and being polite."

But others believed the notion was out of fashion in today's dating world.

One said: "I would rather pay for myself then there are no 'expectations'. I am lucky enough to find one of those every time."

"What? It's 2021. Whoever asks the other person out should pay for the date," a second suggests.

A third commented: "My man didn't pay for me on the first date, and he turned out to be the most amazing and caring person I've met, and generous too."

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