I can't sleep because I cheated on my boyfriend

DEAR DEIDRE: I CAN hardly sleep because I cheated on my boyfriend by kissing somebody and almost had sex with them.

I’m a woman of 25 and my boyfriend is 27.


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He’s lovely and I don’t know what came over me.

But I was out celebrating a friend’s birthday when this gorgeous guy came up and stood next to me at the bar.

I was bowled over by how good-looking he was and when he started talking to me, I couldn’t believe my luck.

He asked me for a dance and then we kissed.

We went outside and were about to have sex behind the club.

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But then I suddenly came to my senses, remembering my boyfriend, and stopped.

I’ve told my boyfriend that somebody tried to kiss me and he was annoyed but didn’t say much. I feel so bad.

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It wasn’t right to cheat – but nobody died.

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