I used to have great sex with my older wife before we married but now her sex drive is completely dead

DEAR DEIDRE:  SEX with the older woman I married used to be amazing but now the chemistry between us has completely disappeared.

I’m a man of 29 and she’s 41. We are growing apart. She goes to bed early.

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I go up to bed a little later and lie there with her asleep by my side. There is no affection.

We used to have sex three or four times a day before we married.

Now it’s once a month if I’m lucky and it is roll-on, roll-off sex with no foreplay or affection. There is no romance at all.

Maybe it is because I’m younger but I don’t know how to approach the situation.

DEIDRE SAYS: You just have to talk to her. Tell her you miss the intimacy and ask what she would see as going wrong between you.

It might be sexual technique or something to do with your relationship in the round.

My e-leaflet on Reviving A Woman’s Sex Drive will explain more.

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